Health And Sex
We are at an age where some of us are having sex, but it's very important to respect other people and their choices, regardless of whether those choices entail having sex or not. Also, if someone is sexually active or has been sexually active with 1 or more people that's their decision, not yours, so please respect their decision. It's their body and they can do what they want with it. That also means they have the decision on what they don't want to do with it.
Be safe with sex. It is important to know all the different methods and ways to prevent STIs and pregnancy. It is also important to get tested for STIs before having sex, you don't want to give anything to your partner, so be safe.
If you need birth control, need to talk an ask about sex, have questions, need to get tested, etc go to http://www.teenclinic.org/ to get info on their services. They are located in both Boulder and Longmont and offer confidential (from parents as well) services. We get that sometimes you need help without you parents or guardians.
If you need birth control, need to talk an ask about sex, have questions, need to get tested, etc go to http://www.teenclinic.org/ to get info on their services. They are located in both Boulder and Longmont and offer confidential (from parents as well) services. We get that sometimes you need help without you parents or guardians.
Prevention of Rape and Sexual Harrasment
Respecting others boundaries is very important. Make sure you don't touch someone if it makes them uncomfortable even it means avoiding physical contact at all, some people just don't like to be touched. Make sure you ask if it's okay before you hug, kiss, touch, grope, or etc someone.
Just because you may not be touching them sometimes its not okay with what you say either. Please refrain, unless the person is okay with you asking, from inquiring about whether someone is a virgin or anything involving sex life. It may make someone uncomfortable so also respect if they don't want to tell you. Also refrain from saying things sexually to someone, while it may seem flattering it could also cause the person to be uncomfortable for someone.
In a relationship it is important to set up boundaries with your partner. Make sure you go over things they are okay with doing and check up on them throughout your relationship. Miscommunication can cause issues for many relationships, so it's important to talk to your partner. Make safe words so if you really don't want to have sex with your partner or your partner doesn't want to have sex with you you'll be able to communicate that to each other. Sometimes saying No is enough but it can get confusing as well. Remember though NO MEANS NO. If your partner does not want to continue at any point no matter what, YOU HAVE TO STOP. No buts or ifs. Consent can be revoked as easily as given and that is all up to you and your partner. Keep sex safe and comfortable for one another.
Just because you may not be touching them sometimes its not okay with what you say either. Please refrain, unless the person is okay with you asking, from inquiring about whether someone is a virgin or anything involving sex life. It may make someone uncomfortable so also respect if they don't want to tell you. Also refrain from saying things sexually to someone, while it may seem flattering it could also cause the person to be uncomfortable for someone.
In a relationship it is important to set up boundaries with your partner. Make sure you go over things they are okay with doing and check up on them throughout your relationship. Miscommunication can cause issues for many relationships, so it's important to talk to your partner. Make safe words so if you really don't want to have sex with your partner or your partner doesn't want to have sex with you you'll be able to communicate that to each other. Sometimes saying No is enough but it can get confusing as well. Remember though NO MEANS NO. If your partner does not want to continue at any point no matter what, YOU HAVE TO STOP. No buts or ifs. Consent can be revoked as easily as given and that is all up to you and your partner. Keep sex safe and comfortable for one another.